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Moving in to our new place had motivated me to learn how to swim. Simply because our new flat is in an alluring condo resort.


Living in a condominium resort is a new lifestyle trend in Singapore. In just a few years, many was erected in different parts of the country, enticing generally new families and yuppies to invest and enjoy what it offers.


Although condo living wasn’t new in this space limited country, the latest properties offers a holiday feels to the owners and its visitors. It is created with a fusion of residential and hotel vibes.


In a normal condominium, there are 24 hours security with employed guards and installed CCTV’s, emergency exits and alarms as well as private access cards or keys. Also, it has a property manager, carpark, mail boxes and amenities which are mainly a pool, gym, barbecue pit and court for either basketball, badminton, or tennis.


But a condo resort, offers an ample of facilitates that made you feel like you were checked-in for a lifetime vacation. It will make you not wanting to leave home since almost everything that you desire for a perfect hotel accommodation is just a doorstep away. In fact, from the time we moved, we never booked a hotel overseas that is better than where we are staying.


All the condo resort in Singapore which I had visited are aesthetically designed with more greens, pools and recreational areas. They have mostly these features other than the basics:

1. Numerous Swimming Pools such as a lagoon pool, lap pool, social pool, dipping pool, kiddie pool, jacuzzi pool, exercise pool, beach (sanded) pool, salted water, river pool and spa pool.

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2. Barbecue, Teppanyaki and Picnic Area which you can book for a gathering.

3. Function Rooms that are huge enough for meetings, seminars or parties. Others offer a sofa, kitchen, white board and projectors to use.

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3. Outdoor and Modern Indoor Gym.

4. Tennis Court, Badminton Court and/or Basketball Court.

5. Children’s Playground.

6. Steam Room.

7. Indoor and Outdoor Garden.

8. Jogging, Walking Path, and/or Trail.

9. Quiet Room, Conversation Area and/or Gazebo.

10. Koi Pond.

11. Convenience Store.

12. Onsen.

13. Reading Room and/or Meditation Area.

14. Game Room where you can play cards, table games, dart, and/or billiards.

15. Theatre Room for a movie party with family and friends.

16. KTV Room for those who love singing.

17. Clinic with health and medical staffs.

18. Etc.


Each unit is arranged to easily access at least one amenities from their block. Also, like hotels, the pads are not constructed proportionate with each other. A prospect property buyer may purchase a flat according to their capability and needs. They can choose from a studio up to 4 bedroom unit. Some properties also have an area for up to 3 storey landed houses with own terrace and/or garden and garage.


These nowadays’s properties surely inspires and motivates the occupants to acquire new hobbies and well, to always stay home…



*photos are from ours and my sister’s condo resort only.


 
 
 

The Philippines is a set of thousands of islands and islets. Therefore, I am sure that someone who doesn’t know how to swim in my country is pretty unusual. Unfortunately, I am definite that not much of them can relate to me - because I am one of that unusual. In fact, even if majority of Filipinos said that, 'life's a beach', it wasn't true for me.


Yes, I can’t swim. I grew up in the city where there was no access to beach.


Aside from the fact that I can’t swim, I am afraid.


My greatest phobia are deep bodies of water - especially the still one and as far as I can remember it started when I was about 8 years old. My friend tried to scare me by telling stories that beneath every bodies of water are hungry giant crocodiles swimming and waiting to devour anyone who will fall into it. Since then, it has been in my suppressed imagination. It comes out as an intense fear to be in seas, rivers or swimming pools.


But as I grew older, and started air travelling, I realised how important swimming is as a survival skill every time I looked out of the plane window. Simply, the earth is made of a massive liquid form. I knew by then I have no choice.


Other than survival reasons, social water fun is one of my considerations. I felt embarrassed to parade my swimsuit each time I am invited in a swimming party yet not knowing how to swim at all.


So one day, I told myself that I should learn.


But really, how to swim? Because after many years of attempt and lots of concerned people who taught me, I still can’t.


When my husband and I moved into a beautiful condo resort which owns four swimming pools, it finally motivated me to learn.

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My husband having to grew up in a small island with a river just across their house, is an expert. He encourage to teach me almost every night. It took me months until I gave in. I had a free session since. There are times that we invited my self-taught swimmer brother to boost the force and the fun. For four months of lesson, I can't say that I am already good at it. Because the truth is, I still don't know how. Nevertheless, I was able to ponder unto why I still can’t.


...because really, how to swim?


I realised its not all about techniques. But its all about me. Here’s why and how I can’t actually do it:

  1. I don’t conquer my fear - my fear of water, my fear of drowning, my fear of bloating from all the water which I might gulp, and my fear of not being able to learn at all.

  2. Although I knew it is necessary for me to know how to swim, I am not strongly convinced that I need it.

  3. I am not very motivated, focused and determined.

  4. I don’t trust my body, my instinct.

  5. I don’t believe that I actually can.

  6. I am not confident in the water. My unforeseen imagination of that giant crocodile who is waiting to devour me had blinded me.

  7. It never genuinely interest me.

So how can I actually swim?


Reverse!


Reversing my beliefs and perceptions is what I must do to be able to effectively spread my arms and wiggle my legs like I’m a free flowing fish. Because those are the facts that actually hinders me of knowing how to.


In addition, what is ironic of me is that, I am afraid to swim yet I am afraid to drown.


To this date, I am still a constant student…but I am glad that I am learning about myself while I’m learning how to paddle my body in the water.


Indeed, here’s my new mantra which I got from my brother which I would like to passed on: ‘techniques are easy and its not in what kind of water or how deep it is…but it depends from what’s within you’.


So, how about you, are you learning something new lately? Or do you want to learn something but are afraid of? Maybe you had been learning something for months or even years yet still never got it right. What’s stopping you?



*for self-taught, I would like to share how my brother had improved his swimming skills by just teaching himself alone: have someone record your performance every time. Criticise it, compare it to others especially to the professionals and try to track your improvements.





 
 
 

Updated: Sep 28, 2020


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We went to a Sci-fi exhibit showcasing the possibility of life in Mars. Its aim is to create awareness, interest and enthusiasm about the future of the universe.

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Entrance is free with online registration. We spent one whole afternoon to familiarise and educate ourselves with how the science and research had so far achieved in their studies. As soon as we entered, we were welcomed like we just arrived in Mars as a new citizen. Then, we were given an identification card with our photo, name, arrival date and personal number on.

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Thereafter, we were oriented with the basic necessities we need to acquire so we can survive living in Mars. Like how our shelter and infrastructure will look like and function. We were also given a virtual reality headset to simulate our job, like piloting the rover to retrieve scuttled cargo.

Additionally, we tried a machine that replicates the feeling of walking in a space with altered gravity. It gave us indescribable muscle inactivity while moving.


Most importantly, we were introduced to our probable sources of food by growing plants. The exhibit surprisingly presents proof based on studies that life can actually exist in Mars by producing plants that can actually grow in a soil. Thereupon, we were allowed to choose some plants, put it on a red tin bucket and bring it home with us. Along, was a souvenir photo of our experience.

Going back home, we merrily displayed our plants at the terrace. Day by day, we watched it grow and each time we water it, it brought smiles to us. Because regardless whether we believe or not, it gave us an evidence and a hope that life can exist in Mars.

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Unfortunately, after many months, the plant faced its own time and bid goodbye. Perhaps, the earth is not its ideal environment but its Mars, although I refuse to think that way.


Now, the red tin buckets that housed the plants still refreshes my memory of that life we once experienced in Mars where its altered gravity needing no muscles to work. As we repurposed it, it reminds us of the famous Ice Bucket Challenge that went viral some time around 2014. Even if it was done half for fun by many, the ALS Association in the U.S. had started it all to raise awareness and funds for its advance research. Because yes, we needed our muscles here on earth.




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